Friday, July 31, 2009

How Can I Get My Child to Study Everyday?

There are a lot of kids who neglect their homework until it piles up and then do it all at at once at the very last minute. In first or second grade, this maybe possible because work is still easy. But when study materials get more difficult, it'll become a burden. At this stage, children will start avoiding homework and making no progress in their studies. Consequently, self-motivation will also subside and create a vicious cycle. Worst of all, children will become lazy and would prefer to spend their time playing games rather than studying.

So what should be done to encourage a good study habit?

  1. Let your child understand why study is important.
  2. Parents should be consistent in encouraging their children to study everyday.
  3. If they don't want to do their homework, find out the reason.
  4. If they receive good mark, praise more on their effort in achieving it.
  5. Always use positive words in communicating your message to them.
It's obvious that parents should become good communicators in dealing with their children. Of course, it won't be easy at first. However, if you are aware that the way you talk to your children will shape their strong or weak personalities, then you will do your best to produce a strong willed child.